Intercultural Communication; from theory to practice and back
Put this date in your diary 10 AM, 4th September 2011 Day Event hosted by SIETAR UK and UWE, Bristol (Bristol Parkway) Venue:
4th September 2011 - UWE, Bristol Parkway.
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In recognition of the significance of efficient communication in modern complex workplaces there has been an explosion of interest in cultural diversity and intercultural (IC) facilitation and training. Leading training companies in the UK report a steady growth in demand for training over the past few years and studies on IC skills/competence and IC training provide evidence suggesting that training is of benefit to trainees but also to the companies as a whole. Intercultural communication discourses have also become dominant in social life and found their way into policy documents (e.g. National Occupational Standards for Intercultural Working) referring to the skills an individual needs to have or acquire in order to interact ‘successfully’ and work ‘efficiently’ in multinational/multilingual contexts. What is particularly relevant to the IC field however is the scarcity of work bridging theory and practice. Accordingly the aim of this one day event is to bring academic research closer to professional practice and for the experience of the IC trainers and practitioners to feed back into academic research. For further programme details please contact: Dr Jo Angouri (Jo.Angouri@uwe.ac.uk) Preliminary programme (further details will be announced and circulated soon) 10.00 Conference Opening 10.30-11.30 Celia Roberts, King’s College, London 11.30-12.00 Coffee break 12.00-13.00 Carlos Gonzalez-Carrasco, Transcultural Business Group 13.00-14.00 Lunch break 14.00-15.00 Francesca Bargiela-Chiappini, University of Warwick 15.00-16.00 George Simons, Diversophy 16.00-17.30: Round table and Coffee: Details tbc 17.30. Conference Close
Registration: http://sietarukconference.eventbrite.com/ SIETAR members and BAAL conference delegates: £65 Non members: £90 Students: £35 Details on how delegates can register will be announced soon. For registration queries or to join SIETAR, UK please contact Matthew Hill (hillmatthew100@mac.com) Please note BAAL delegates will need to register separately for this event.
7 Leadership Skill for Managing Diverse Global Teams
7 Remote Leadership Skills Seminar
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Please join us for the “7 Leadership Skills for Managing Diverse Global Teams” Seminar Event - 7PM, 19th July 2011 at the Chartered Institute of Arbitrators, Bloomsbury Square, Holborn, London, WC1A 2 LP. UK.
How are you coping with your international colleagues? Why is communication sometimes so difficult? Does teamwork have to be so stressful?
This will be a high-energy 3-hour event that will take you from curious to competent in the following areas…
1. Channels for Powerful Communication – The main issue with remote teams is the narrowing of information exchange due to distance and the media. We will suggest methods to enhance your presence, impact and influence from a distance.
2. Mind the Culture GAP! – We will provide a model of cultural difference that may surprise you! You will be shown a new way to look at cultural difference and describe new possibilities for creating trust across the bridge that is culture.
3. Managing, Leading and Influencing - We will point out the critical differences between managing, leading and influencing and show you what works well and where others often get it so wrong.
4. Building Trust Remotely – We will take a more scientific look at the 3 components of trust and see what you can do to guarantee rapport, relationship growth and reciprocity.
5. Dealing with Conflict - We will show you 3 ways to stop the painful disputes and how to turn around hot and cold conflicts.
6. From Confusion to Value - In this seminar you will be shown some of the advanced techniques used by the biggest global companies to make diversity positive and productive for all.
7. Remote Moderation - We will demonstrate great ways to chair remote meetings, grow trust and accountability and get your team moving forward, in the way that makes sense for you and promotes accountability and empowerment within your remote team.
How does that sound? – Can you afford NOT to be there?
Refreshments provided with a networking break after an hour. (3 hour event)
Tickets are £37 each with an early-bird offer of £27! Space is limited, so take action TODAY!
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Who should come along?
If you are working with a remote team or within a diverse team, then this evening event will help you get engagement, diffuse tension and get to super-performance within your team.
Please feel free to call if you have any queries on 07813 760 711
What’s in it for you?
This is a unique and comfortable opportunity to measure your readiness and ability in dealing with difference and distance. You will raise your awareness of your “cultural blind spots” and, in so doing, free yourself to become much more effective in managing remotely and getting the job done.
We look forward to welcoming you on the 19th July at 7PM.
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Speaker Profile
Matthew Hill
Matthew Hill is an experienced Leadership trainer, coach, public speaker and consultant working in
a multi-national business setting.Matthew has more than 20 years of experience with over 70 clients in 20 countries from his international executive search, HR and training career, servicing clients that include the UK Government, Ernst and Young, ABB, GE, PWC, Mercedes, Sony, SAP, Arup, Unilever, Texaco, EdFE, RWE, Abbott Laboratories, Tesco, Deutsche Bank, EBRD, Motorola and NIKE. He has personally worked with 50 nationalities in 20 countries and managed people from 12 different countries.
Today his work covers a number of training areas including – Diversity, Virtual Team Building, Negotiation and Conflict Resolution, Raising Cultural Awareness, Influencing, Equality and New Leadership and Country Culture Briefings (Russia, Poland, Czech and Slovak Republics, Hungary, Austria, Croatia, Bulgaria, Germany, Romania, Ukraine, Turkey, Azerbaijan, Kazakhstan, Ireland the UK.)
Matthew has held the positions of Managing Director, HR Practice Leader, Client Operations Manager and Team Leader for two long-standing global executive search and HR consultancies. His experience extends beyond the UK and the Continent to include Asia, Central Asia and a 6-year tour in the Czech Republic where he held a regional role for Central and Eastern Europe. Here he successfully shaped project requirements, designed and lead international training and consultancy assignments. Matthew graduated from London University (Psychology and Life Sciences) and has professional qualifications in advertising, marketing and intercultural training as well as extensive in-house training and development experience. He is a licensed practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming.
He regularly writes, broadcasts (both radio and podcast) and speaks for the BBC, the APU in Cambridge, Newcastle University, the Belgian and Hungarian Embassies, the CIPD, The British, Australian and New Zealand Chambers of Commerce, UKTI, the Trade Council of Iceland, the Institute of Directors - IOD, The Tomas Bat’a University in Zlin, Czech Republic, HR Director magazine, European CEO magazine, Human Capital Management magazine, International Trade magazine, International Trade Forum magazine, Global Connection magazine, HR Review magazine, The Personnel Zone website, Construction News, SIETAR, The Association of European Businesses, IIC Partners, IIR Conferences (Globally Mobile Executives) and the ECIA (Engineering and Construction).
He had recorded a number of CD’s including Coaching For Change (2009) and written a number of books including Step Up to Leadership (2009), Kill Conflict DEAD! (2010) and Coaching for Change (2010). His newest book on young and new leadership will appear later in 2011. He now lives in London and is Chairman of the charity - the Society for Intercultural Education, Training and Research – SIETAR UK.
Matthew Hill
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Intercultural Conflict - From pain to PROGRESS...
Conflict Resolution – SIETAR UK
Written by Matthew Hill from the discussion notes at the SIETAR UK World Café on Intercultural Conflict in February 2011 at the Chartered Institute of Arbitrators, moderated by Wendy Bamfield, Tricia Coverdale – Jones, Neil Payne, Christine Bunnenburg, Nicola Weinert, Chris Stephens, Chris Balkwill, Rob Johnson, Arun Singh and Katherine Barton.
What is a conflict? It can be overt; with two parties in active disagreement, showing emotions, a difference in power levels and asserting their feelings of injustice. Alternatively, it can be covert; evidenced by passive displays of withdrawal, subtle exclusion and polite non-cooperation. What constitutes a conflict in one culture may be a lively and healthy debate in another. What is an assertive and healthy expression of desire in one culture may deeply offensive and cause pain and escalation somewhere else.
What are the qualities of a good mediator? They are open by nature, an accomplished active listener who can decode communication to identify the unread emotional needs of the parties involved; for security, variety, meaning, connection, growth and contribution.
They will be an advanced communicator able to synthesise, paraphrase and reframe as they dissect messages and undercover the constituent parts of communication; content, plea / command / request, relationship and self revelation.
Useful is a knowledge of the commercial world, how communities operate and prosper and how various relationships can be made to function successfully.
Finally, a good mediator will possess a healthy understanding of their own triggers, blind spots and irritating habits. A centred mediator will have learnt to accept themselves as they ARE and as they ARE NOT, will have built up their patience in dealing with difficult people and will be interested in creating new and lasting solutions that bring value and peace to quarrelling parties.
Who makes a good mediator? Someone who is culturally sensitive, likes solving problems, has flexible thinking styles and possesses charm, advanced levels of language and influence and is in touch with their intuition. They will be patient and resourceful. They have courage, confidence and stamina as well as credibility, emotional resilience and intellectual rigour.
What discipline is required? To emotionally detach oneself from the conflict, the personalities involved and the interests of the people in the dispute. To concentrate on the mechanisms of dispute and the methods to reverse these negative spirals producing constructive and robust solutions.
A great mediator is able to be centred, confident and strong. They are aware of their own words, body and emotions and can choose their responses and frame their communication to have an appropriate effect on the audience.
They will have practised varying their personal power so that they can rapidly adjust from high, equal or low personal power states.
They will know the difference between a judgement, an evaluation and a fact.
What is a trigger / irritator? This can be a word, picture or idea that provokes a strong autonomic physical reaction and is normally labelled with a negative emotional term. Most conflict is fuelled by people who are communicating whilst reacting to a trigger. The mediator learns their craft by transcending their personal triggers and learning not to have an emotional response to key words and ideas that they were once vulnerable to.
Is the context important? Disputes always occur within a setting that has many complex dimensions. PEST - There may be political, economic, social or technological issues in play. The dispute may be happening in one party’s territory and the context may make one side feel powerful and superior and the other vulnerable and threatened. A conflict will have a past, present, near future and a far future.
There may be a desire to win rather than lose, to maximise personal power and to minimise the opposition’s power in the belief that this is the “right” thing to do.
Part of the context is the common grounds, personal styles, the combatant’s cultural drivers and values and the psychological map of the world that each party has built up in living their lives and experiencing interpersonal exchanges with family, friends, bosses, customers, colleagues and acquaintances.
What methods can a mediator use? A good mediator will attempt to separate out the issues from the emotions felt and the people and personalities involved. They will encourage divergent, creative thinking to maximise options, choices and suggestions giving a better chance of solving the problem that initially led to the conflict.
Here the good mediator differentiates between symptom, causes and root cause and facilitates brainstorming to generation suggestions from the disputing parties.
The mediator has advanced skills in using their words, body and emotions to create a vision, set a tone, manage tension and deal with the various interpersonal styles and the conflict styles present in the room.
From the outset the mediator asks each participant to dissociate from their own point of view and to begin to recognise that there is an alternative perspective and that a different position may also be valid and need to be acknowledged.
A prerequisite of good mediation is that the disputing parties share their power in order that they equally contribute to the solution and then feel better about committing to the outcome.
What needs to change to resolve conflicts? The mistakes and misunderstandings must be reversed. The participants must learn to respect difference, to acknowledge its continued presence and to begin to think of ideas for constructive resolution. This requires heightened self-awareness of the individual’s own triggers, a recognition and acceptance of the valid position of other people and a growing desire to participate in problem solving and decision making.
The mediator watches for signs of change. It may be in the words that the parties use, the position of their bodies, their tone of voice, the new vision they are creating for the future or a change in tension, power or personal style.
Successful resolution comes from interrupting patterns, changing habits and expanding horizons and possibilities. It is an optimistic and constructive process that challenges the false thinking of participants.
So is it all about communication and style? At the centre of conflict lie people’s individual conflict styles. They may compete to win and make the other party lose. This is valid in some cultures where it can be quick and effective, especially if the party think they are right. The cost can be in creating damaged, humiliated people who do not join the consensus and may become bitter and choose to take revenge.
Others accommodate, losing the battle today to win the war tomorrow. They promote trust by giving something and acquiescing to the other’s power in the shorter term. They risk their trust being exploited and forfeiting a healthy long-term solution.
Players may compromise to produce a quick fix that wins them more time to structure a healthy solution. This may cause unhappiness as no party gets all of what they want.
Many people avoid, thinking this saves face, avoids pain and aids survival. However this does not provide a solution and can need lead to escalation.
Those that collaborate use the techniques of mediation to creatively expand their range of choices and end up with something of greater value for both parties that can be committed to, so producing a longer lasting and richer solution.
Associated with the collaborative approach is assertive communication where power and diplomacy operate in a healthy balance so that the individual can express their wants and needs whilst respecting the different wants and needs of the other party. Assertiveness combines facts with emotions and generates requests that have credibility. E.g. “When you do X, I find it really irritating. In future, can you do Y?”
Why is empowerment at the heart of successful conflict resolution? If both parties feel confident and able to express their needs, then this is the only way that resolution can occur. The essential condition for success is that both parties feel validated, acknowledged, respected, listened to and understood.
The bi-product of empowerment is that the parties can then be held accountable for their behaviour and are invested in the consequences of their actions. The output of empowerment is personal responsibility.
What strategies are required? The mediator moderates proceedings and deals with difficult behaviour. Knowing when to be assertive and to challenge individuals and went to use the group dynamic to challenge unconstructive behaviour becomes a strategic decision. The mediator balances diplomacy with the need for progress.
The mediator creates a frame, promotes trust, raises self-awareness, raises awareness of the other party, isolates the issues, restates the issues constructively and uses various methods to get to a viable outcome.
One strategy for reversing escalating tension or unblocking frozen debate is to stop, take a break, breathe, move bodies and change the setting. This can often release new energy, creativity and positive ideas. It subtly promotes the essential technique of mediation, which is to change the point of view.
When do you get a resolution? The mediator’s job begins to come to a close when the parties have recognised and reconcile their differences and have agreed to discontinue hostilities.
Going further it is possible to create much better outcomes by trading further and creating synergies and greater value-added solutions by reframing difference as an opportunity. As Meredith Belbin said, “No person is perfect… but a team can be!”
What is to be learnt by the mediator? Solving one problem is satisfying but it may not help you solve all problems. The mediator accumulates experience that include successes and failures (reframed as accelerated hot learning!) They hone their personal skills, detach, transcend their irritations and sublimate their own agendas, becoming adept at mining into communication to find the golden truths within.
Thanks to everyone who contributed to the SIETAR UK World Café on Intercultural Conflict in February 2011, held at the Chartered Institute of Arbitrators… especially our superstar mediators, Ranse Howell and
Susanne Schuler.
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[theworldatwork.com] Americans are Different - Perceptions of American business people from a British perspective
As of Sept 15, 2010, I stepped down as the Global Fund for Women's President & CEO. I remain a Senior Advisor. I am currently a Visiting Scholar and Fellow at Stanford University's Center for Democracy,Development and the Rule of Law (CDDRL) as well as the Center for Philanthropy and Civil Society (PACS). You may reach me at knramdas@gmail.com. Thank you for your solidarity & support!
Americans are Different - Perceptions of American business people from a British perspective
Americans are Different - Perceptions of American business people from a British perspective
The 4th of July
Whilst speaking to someone in the States on the telephone last summer I was asked if I was going to celebrate the 4th of July holiday, which was due in a day or so. I was taken aback for a moment by the question? I thought to myself, “But why would I? I mean after all, we (the British) were the ones that lost the War of Independence weren’t we?”
I don’t think that the full historical context was uppermost in the person’s mind when they asked me that question. They were simply spreading the ‘goodwill’ that the 4th of July event can evoke in the States.
Holidays and the celebration of them are not the only differences between cultures. In fact, along with national food dishes they are often the easier parts to understand and join in with.
Business communication
It can be a very different story when we examine the way we communicate in the global world of business.
In the U.S., an extremely vast country, there is a surprising amount of homogeneity; especially in the way that business is conducted. Core values that can drive behaviour in the American office (as well as in US subsidiaries overseas) are a strong focus on getting the task done, a strong sense and pride in individual achievement and an all-encompassing attitude to time and efficiency. Speed is king. There is, as well, often a greater comfort with uncertainty - bouncing back is often seen as much more important than getting every detail right, before moving forward.
Language
American business language can, to a Brit. And to other non-Americans, seem powerful, assertive and dynamic. But enjoying it and understanding it sufficiently to be able to respond are very different things.
Sports language at the business table
The baseball and American football language that flies around the table at meetings can be difficult to make sense of without a rudimentary knowledge of the games they refer to. To touch base, play ball, get a home run, coming from left field, batting a thousand, has two strikes against him and of course the need to cover all the bases are but some of the colourful phrases in common usage. Its use in business reflects the need of Americans to use language that is full of energy and vitality. Where better to take it from that from two very exciting sports.
Fair play & dodgy wickets
Where the British may reference sport in a business setting it more likely to refer to fair play, a level playing field, giving someone a sporting chance or a dodgy wicket. This use of sporting language reflects a much more measured and conversely less dynamic atmosphere around the table at meetings.
And divided by a common language is only the half of it.
From the others’ perspective
Looking at the reality of how might we (Brits. & Americans) may see and experience each other, some of the following observations may be useful.
Some Americans may see the Brits, as: cynical, cold, distant, argumentative, implacable, distrustful of each other, pessimistic, out of touch, over-cautious, lacking spontaneity, bureaucratic, secretive, uncommitted to results, autocratic.
And Brits may see the Americans, as:naive, childish, superficial, insincere, lacking in conviction or depth, foolish, aggressive, workaholics, scatterbrained and undisciplined, small-minded, poor judges of character, over-reaching of themselves and of course wasteful.
Making sense of it all
The American friendliness and openness which is designed to promote trust as a proactive and constructive approach to life and business may be seen by Brits as somehow naive or childish. We have learnt through our long and often bitter history that to trust less is probably safer. One is less likely to lose ones’ head either in real terms or figurative terms. Americans sees this attitude as cynical and pessimistic. The Brits see it as necessary realism.
Americans are, on the whole much more spontaneous that Brits. They like to ‘brainstorm’ their way through the problems and challenges of life and business, the more ideas the better. The Brits. see this as rather undisciplined, disorganised and unpredictable and highly dangerous.
In such uncertainty one never knows what may end up being suggested!
To a Brit. it is much better to prepare precisely what you wish to say, choose your words very carefully, in a ‘blame culture’ like ours a person will be held accountable for what they say.
Americans see this as overly cautious, guarded and lacking in spontaneity. For Americans this dull British approach can almost crush the desire for freedom and creativity. How repressed says one side – how immature says the other.
Changing times
But things are changing. The truth is that in the business world, we in Europe, have progressively borrowed from America more and more cultural traits, business practices, idiomatic expressions and the language of business communication than we may realise or be willing to admit.
In some ways we have all become a little bit American around the office or on the shop floor.
Perceptions from the past
In a recent research project the following question was asked:
What negative stereotypes/prejudices about people from the US have you heard?
These following answers were given by Americans in Europe about their own culture.
What the Americans mentioned about themselves:
- fat
- ugly
- loud
- impolite
- impatient
- pushy/rude
- bossy
- ignorant (of world events)
- don't understand irony/ have a sense of humour
- arrogant
- rich
- spend too much money
- racially bigoted
- language-impaired
- self-centred
- overly individualistic
- don't work vary hard
- not on time for anything
The above may be comforting confirmation to the Europeans of how they believe the Americans really are but the current reality is always caught in a time warp of comfortable stereotypes that say more about the past than the present.
Today’s Americans
The Americans who travel the world today on business are a very different group from those that came over to Europe in the 60’s. Today they much more savvy and attuned to the cultural differences around them. They may still prefer the American way of doing things but they are increasingly more open to difference and to experimentation – if it can be proved to work. Perhas it is time to update the stereotypes.
Richard Cook is an intercultural trainer and coach and can be contacted on richardcook@global-excellence.com or on +44 (0)20 8579 1980
Squaring the Communist Capitalist Circle
The Bulgaria – US Gap. Is it a Bridge Too Far?
I was recently asked to help with a simple cultural training programme that has rapidly grown into a complex and vivid example of how relatively sympathetic cultures and countries can throw up major gaps in values and understanding.
The Scenario
The task was to assist a Bulgarian call centre team to improve the quality of their soft skills and politeness as they served a US customer base (remotely.)
On the surface the mission seemed achievable and straightforward. The Bulgarians would be shown US norms of behaviour around US good manners and expressions of appreciation for their loyalty as customers. It did not, at first, seem overly complex.
By the way – the team were performing well as a call centre, dealing with technical queries, arriving on time and getting the call centre job done to a high standard.
Then came some details, about what incidents had occurred and, suddenly, this looked like a much bigger job.
The Cultural Issues
Maybe you can start to imagine the mismatch in communication based on the different worlds and different cultural values of the two countries.
Bulgaria was under the Soviet spell for a long time and still has a special relationship with Russia. The synthetic, peach culture; “How are you this fine day?” and “Thank you so much for your custom” do not trip lightly from the Bulgarian tongue and there is no reason why they should.
Under communism, profit was illegal and customers were just fellow travelers in an equal world of scarcity. If you were brought up with no choice, why should a customer choosing to call you, and not someone else, matter? – To the company that spent $$millions they need that loyalty. For you the one choice shopper, it is fairly meaningless.
In communist societies in general and Bulgarian communities in particular, a relationship is an important thing. It takes time to exchange, build trust and establish that the other party are unlikely to do you harm with a betraying phone call to the authorities. Add to this the East - West propaganda about the US being an “Imperialist, free-market capitalist, indulgent consumer society that is over-bloated and corrupt”, and you may begin to see where the gaps appear between desired behaviour and actual behaviour.
When the Bulgarian call centre operative takes the next call, they are fully aware of how little, compared to the caller, they have, how limited their immediate options are, and how unconsciously privileged the caller is.
From this starting point it is easier to see that saying “thank you” a lot may begin to stick in the Bulgarian throat. That and the fact that smiling at a stranger is seen as a sign of insanity in Bulgaria!
As the assignment unfolded, the parallels between an old oppressive authoritarian regime and a free market democracy became more and more clear.
Add in the technical reality of the call centre operative being monitored and recorded by supervisors and the communist irony becomes almost absurd.
So, What is the answer? What is the solution? How can we reconcile the called with the caller and make something beautiful, profitable and sustainable?
More later…
Matthew Hill is an intercultural trainer and leadership coach. Telephone 07813 760 711
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Kill Conflict DEAD! Part 2
Conflict Across Cultures Series
By Matthew Hill
Have you had enough time to think about the Oranges puzzle from a couple of weeks ago?
Here is the background to remind you…
If one party wants to grow orange trees and the other party has a child to nourish, (and there are 2 oranges), what is the solution?
Take a minute and try to think of a reasonable solution…
How you think and what type of answer you come up with will reflect your influences, your programming and your thought patterns now.
Did you take a side and try for a Win – Lose, distributive arrangement? E.g. The mother wears down the farmer with the baby’s crying and gets both oranges!
Did you take a moral stance? Did you abandon logic or move away from an equal starting point?
To get the best solutions you have to attempt the impossible – to transcend your culture, your learning and your patterns of behaviour.
The principles of negotiation help us to achieve this as they have a magical synergistic quality to them anyway.
By centering on interests and needs, by looking at collaborative strategies, by acknowledging difference and individual motivation, an optimal solution can be arrived at.
In this example, the farmer has need of the pips and the child can benefit from the orange juice. They can both have all of the resource they need most!
How will you apply this learning next week?
Until the next time…
Matthew Hill is a Leadership Trainer and Executive Coach - +44 7813 760 711
Don't assume you know the answer
Intercultural trainers and academics are nervous of each other. Academia either produces more and more complicated models or more and more vocal criticisms of the theoretical approaches of the trainers. Trainers on the other hand are accused of mis-applying models and theories, or ignoring latest developments and are branded culturist and reductionist.
The best trainers, and the most resourceful academics, are more open minded and can take lessons from each other.
Which is why I dare to write a short article on pragmatics, or more specifically what pragmatics can bring to the debate about intercultural communication.
Intercultural communication studies are at some stage bound by their very nature eventually to concentrate on communication failure, examining the reasons for misunderstandings and miscommunications, verbal and non-verbal CITATION Sie08 \l 2057 (Sierra, 2008). Taking the view expressed by Scollon and Scollon (2001) that intercultural competence is the ability to communicate with
people in social interaction with each other CITATION Sco01 \l 2057 (Scollon, 2001)
we can state that all communication is intercultural. Taking the definition of pragmatics as explained by Atkinson, Kilby and Roca (1988:217; in Grundy 1995) that pragmatics focuses on the distinction between the literal meaning of a speaker’s words, and what the speaker may intend to mean by those words, we can see that pragmatics is one of the essential tools we have at our disposal to examine intercultural training.
When speaking to familiar people who share the same native language we can reasonably assume that the majority of our talk is understood, (for example in CITATION Mol05 \l 2057 (Molinksy, 2005) when, as in the case of intercultural communication we are talking across language or international borders we can presume that communication breakdown is more likely to occur.
A communication exchange can only be successful where it takes place within the realm of the participants’ shared knowledge and experience. As both speaker and hearer have to make presumptions about what this “common ground” entails, and within the cooperative principle the speaker must assume that the common knowledge is shared by all participants in the talk. However, crucially the speaker can never be sure that this is the case CITATION Bos06 \l 2057 (Bosco, Bucciarelli, & Bara, 2006). We can therefore deduce that one of the main causes of miscommunication is relying on false assumptions.
If you’re still reading, a more practical approach:
When you go into a client meeting, think about all the presumptions you make.
1. Language
Most meetings are conducted in English, but how many business people check in advance, or even better, apologise if they are unable to conduct the full meeting in their hosts’ language?
2. Intentions
We presume that we have similar intentions – in other words if we are there to present a proposal, we have a reasonable expectation that there is some chance of success.
3. Understanding
We have an instinctive ability to interpret verbal and non-verbal messages, and for clarifying meaning. However these are based on our own personal experience which may differ significantly from those of our partners in interaction. At a very simplistic level 99.9% percent (rough guess) equate BBC with the British Broadcasting Corporation, however my daughter knows the BBC as the Better Behaviour Centre at her school (fortunately she has no personal experience of it!).
Usually the context of a conversation gives us good clues as to what it means, but if she were to come home saying she had been to the BBC today and was then distracted by a phone call, she would get away with her crime completely without having uttered a single untruth – yet it is clear that I have been deceived.
In an international context, personal experiences are likely to be much more varied, and therefore conversations will have a much smaller area of common ground and higher levels of misunderstanding. With remote communications and slangy emails abundant, we need to double check our understanding instinct
4. Rules of engagement
Life is made up of rules, and communicative interactions even more so. The problem is no one has written the rules down. We nearly always manage to avoid swearing in front of our parents or at an important business meeting. We always manage to avoid addressing our closest friend as Mr Y or Ms Z (maybe occasionally with irony...). We understand at an instinctive level when a conversation is over, when it is our turn to talk, whom we can interrupt and who cannot be interrupted – these rules are part of our transition from babyhood to adulthood – we often term those who cannot adhere to these rules as “immature” – they have not learned the correct way.
However we assume that these underlying rules are universal, or at least that OUR rules are best and not to be questioned. I have no idea whether these pictures are genuine or not but they illustrate the point better than me http://bit.ly/d0en4l
In summary these 4 points are scratching the surface of what we can gain as trainers from pragmatics without delving into overly complicated methodological debates and arguments. What better way to justify training content than referring to well researched academic texts that support our training activities. Austin in 1962 was one of the first to look at the intentions behind utterances, and by identifying the stages of locution, illocution and perlocution he implicitly recognises that what we actually say and the effect it has on our partner in discourse may be two (at least) very different things . Dascal makes the important point that participants in conversation must comply with two essential duties: to make oneself understood, and to understand (Dascal, 1999). As part of those duties, interlocutors make every effort to ignore superficial, insignificant “errors” in grammar, pronunciation in order to maintain a smooth flow of conversation – if we can promote the ways in which we can make ourselves understood and in return make it easier for us to understand others then we are achieving the goal of intercultural training
If we, as trainers want to provide training on avoiding intercultural misunderstandings then we should not ignore those who have gone before.
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